The Power of Attraction states that by thinking positively, positive energy will be attracted back to you. But the truth is that negative thinking is really the easiest way of getting what you want. What happens when you think these negative thoughts? “I don’t deserve a loving relationship.” “I can never lose weight.” If you saw The Secret, you know that there are some good points made about the power of attraction but if you went home and tried the techniques with nothing more than thinking that I must think positive thoughts, you probably did not get very far with it. Negative thinking gives you immediate gratification so if you said that you don’t deserve a loving relationship…guess what, you probably won’t have one. And one can only guess what happens when we say that we can never lose weight. This is the secret that The Secret movie kind of glossed over. But this it is very important that we understand why the success rate of negative thought far surpasses that of positive thought. The passion or the emotional energy that you put into your negative thought is often greater and more focused than the energy you put into your positive thinking. We are conditioned to think that negative action is more acceptable than positive thought and so, we sabotage ourselves and make excuses why something good would never work. Our thoughts, negative or positive, largely come from our past memories that we have stored in our subconscious mind. Your childhood, culture and belief systems that you grew up with, subconscious images that you created and stored in the back of your mind have a great bearing on your thinking pattern today. Unfortunately, in most cases, the ones you quickly recall and use are the ones that came with much negative emotion. Having said this, while it is highly possible to use positive thinking to manifest your desires, if we do not get to heart of those negative thoughts and change them, you will likely see the failure manifest as you predicted would happen. To avoid such negative outcome, you must re-create the negative thought into a positive one. Only then, might the power of positive thinking actually work. |